I believe

I don’t have the answers. I don’t know the truth. You can’t mind-read intent – there will be misunderstandings. My language and phrasing may not be 100% right, but I’ll continue to learn. I’ll listen without judging and then provide an opinion (I can’t help it). We may disagree, but we can seek understanding. We will, in partnership, find resources and advocates as needed.

As a Mentor

Part of my job as a mentor is to provide a place of openness. One of my favorite quotes is:

“Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.“

I’ve served as a teacher and administrator in higher education systems for over 30 years in different departments, colleges, and institutions. As a faculty member, I’ve made it my mission to be student-centered and to work with various students and faculty worldwide. I will share my experience, stories, truths, paths, and techniques. Does that mean I’m right? Of course not, it’s just easier to learn from other’s bad judgment before trying it yourself for the first time. There are fewer bruises. Sometimes, we just need an ear and a discussion. Not a problem resolved or an issue solved. We need some interaction and discussion to help create a course of action that will lead to beneficial and productive decisions.

As a Coach

I have spent the majority of my adult life coaching others. This has been coaching in different sports, personal safety, and personal development. This is a more active mentoring role around a specific goal.

As a Champion

We don’t always have the tools to successfully champion our own cause or to present our personal cases to others. We learn to build champions (or teams of champions) to strengthen our positions. In the spirit of an ombudsman, I can help investigate, find resources, and attempt to resolve the conflicts or concerns raised by mediation or by making recommendations. Finally, we sometimes need to keep our voices confidential with the help of others who can carry forward complaints of injustice that must be addressed.

What am I not?

I’m not a certified counselor. I’m not a healthcare worker. I’m not a lawyer. I will do my best to assist you within the limits of my professional capability (if needed).

How?

I offer my office as a safe place for discussion. Why? Everyone needs a safe refuge to talk to. An open invitation for on-campus, off-campus, or virtual meetings. I offer an ideological and physical space to discuss.

Belongingness

I’m trying every day to better understand how to impact belongingness.
Belongingness is a human need to give and receive support and security as an engaged member of a group.